Are you underperforming?

Do you feel like life is not treating you as good as it should? Like you're destined for more? Like you're underachieving? And you don't even know why!

Deep down you know you have potential but you just don't seem to know how to squeeze it out of you right?

My Story

I tried countless things that only ended up wasting my time, now, I'm sharing those things so that you don't have to waste your own precious time.

I'll tell you what I did to get the results I did, I'll tell you what helped and what didn't so you don't fall into the same holes I did. 

By no means am I perfect; I'll share stories where I screwed up and embarrassed myself so you can avoid doing the same and you'll get to know me and even yourself at a deeper level.

So nice to meet you bro, I'm Benjamin.

And this website, my YouTube and any other content is the roadmap that helped me go from that frail little scared boy to a confident and ambitious young man.

This is where I'll share EVERYTHING, I'll give away all the SECRETS that helped me make significant progress in my life.

This is a blog about personal development (or self-improvement, call it what you want)

And self-improvement can be quite daunting I know, I've been there, I'll equip you with the right mindsets and mental frames to use so that you get maximum benefit.

I'll also teach you how to overcome fear, how to actually become confident and how to stop waiting for permission to do anything, and I'll always be referring to my own experience and telling you stories to make it entertaining as well, so it's not like that history class with the teacher that's just as old as the history itself.

But first,

The introduction is basically done, but here's some more info incase you need/want it.

Modern day's biggest problem

We face so many problems today that we didn't even have yesterday, but to me these 2 stick out. The biggest problem we face nowadays is that young men lack 1. Direction and 2. Education and that's why I made this blog about personal development.

I was once that little kid who wanted to improve but didn't know how, now I'm not a kid anymore and I want to share what I learned to save you the time and energy that would have otherwise been wasted.

What do these mean?

Lack of Direction

What is direction? Direction is basically where you're heading. Where will you end up in 5 years if you stay on the same course, if you keep doing the things which you're doing today? Direction is also more commonly known as Purpose, but I like to see them as 2 slightly different things but that's not important right now. What you need to know is that here I'll show you how you can solve this problem, find fulfilling purpose for your life and lead it in a good direction.

Lack of Education

We live in what's called the age of information yet the world has never been so overly populated with stupid people. Let that sink in for a bit.

But why is this? Well we have so much information readily available to us yet so much of it is either false, useless or contradicts itself. Ive gone through a lot of it and you can rest easy knowing I will give you what Works based on my and others' experiences and based on common sense.

The Solution? Self-Improvement for Young Men

You should be:

• Confident
• Full of energy
• Sharp
• Intelligent
• Educated
• Good Socially
• Strong
• Healthy

If one or more of these are missing then you're not living to the potential that you could be living.

Now just imagine for a second, close you eyes and imagine yourself going about daily life with the above qualities, imagine you're the person you've always wanted to be, the person you look up to, the person other people look up to.

I bet it's amazing right? But how will you get there?

Through Self-Improvement.

What is Self-Improvement?

Now I don't know what you call it whether it's self-help, personal development or simply self-improvement, they're all used interchangeably to refer to the same thing.

And I don't know what you've heard about it or what your thoughts are on it, cause I know some people give it a bad name.

But in the most basic sense of this 'philosphy' is actively working to improve yourself in every aspect.

It is constant learning.

Way too many people get stagnant in life. Don't let it be you.

My Mission

My job is to deliver self-improvement content to young men and my goal is to help other young men like myself become better, I do this by sharing what I have learned so others don't have to go through the same trials I did.

I'll show you how to improve every aspect of your life (as I did with mine) using tools you already have, guiding you to get what you desire quicker and with less difficulty than it would have taken otherwise.

If that sounds like something that would interest you then I look forward to working with you in the future.

What to Expect

You should expect of me to give you the most up-to-date information with honesty and directness. No fluff.

I'm here to share my knowledge, to share what I learned and help you.

If you want to keep 'running around' not knowing what to do to acually make a difference in your life then I can't help you.

The 3 Main Aspects of Self-Help

I like to split my learning in 3 different categories

          1. Mental : Everything that has to do with mindset, mentality, knowledge and information. I'll teach you everything you need o know from how to think to forming your own opinions to some hard to swallow truths about life.

          2. Physical : This is everything that has to do with the physical aspect of a person cause whether you believe it or not this has a big impact on your success in life. They say 'Don't judge a book by its cover' but you form the 1st impression based on what you see on the cover.

This section takes care of everything from a healthy weight to being strong to physical attractiveness, acne and clothing. How you present yourself to the world has a big impact on how the world treats you, market yourself as well put together and it will treat you as such.

          3. Social : Humans are social creatures, it's embedded deep in our psychology that we're stronger together. It's a shame that we see a person on the street and we don't even say good morning anymore, it's like we're all living separately rather than in a community.

This section covers the skills and pointers important to keep in mind when working or interacting with other people.

If all this interests you then stick around, 

I feel like we're going to become great friends.